I Cheat But Don’t Know Why?
Here’s what Tim had to say to me recently:
“I’m cheating on my wife but don’t know what to do!”
Tim’s in an especially difficult position because his wife doesn’t know ( but Tim wants to confess to ’start afresh’ )… unfortunately his girlfriend WANTS him to tell his wife so they (girlfriend and Tim) can be a legit couple! Wow! Complicated!
My Partner Loves A Virtual Reality Avatar?
One of our neighbors spent most of the last year confined to her home, seemingly tied to her computer, spending all of her time online and engaged in the cyber reality place called Second Life.
I admit that I became a little curious as to the attraction of this massively popular ‘game’…
How to Catch an Online Cheat
So you have been observing your partner for a while and you are becoming more and more convinced that they are having an online affair or indulging in some form of online activity that you consider damaging to your relationship.
Good News: Catching an online cheat can be done pretty simply unless your partner is a techno wiz…
Classic Computer Infidelity Behavior
Any drastic or sudden change in a partner’s behavior towards you should naturally be a cause of concern, but there are specific behaviors that are more likely to indicate that your partner is engaging in computer infidelity.
While a sudden lost of sexual interest can be the result of numerous possibilities, the general desire not to be near you, not to cuddle, not to engage with you on any physical sense is a definite warning sign.
Coping with Online Infidelity
Coping with online infidelity is a relatively new concept. In the time before the internet an affair took up a great deal of time and energy and had to be meticulously planned out in order to be successful.
These days anyone can jump onto the internet and find someone who will at least perform sexual activities if not get more involved. I have even been propositioned in chat rooms designed for parenting advice!
What is ‘Emotional’ Infidelity?
Hearing that your cheating spouse is “in love” with someone else is devastating.
I hear often, “I can handle her having sex with someone else. I think I can live with that. But, for her to give herself emotionally and “love” someone else…man, that is hard.”
BTW: Feel free to substitute the word ‘he’ for ’she’ in this article.
Is Your Partner Having An Online Affair?
There is a growing trend among apparently committed couples these days. The increase in cybersex relationships and online affairs is actually at disturbing numbers.
While there are varying definitions that determine what actually constitutes an affair or cybersex, the websites that promote this type of ‘hooking up’ are not all that discreet…
Is Cyber Sex Addictive – are you hooked ?
The pornography industry couldn’t believe its good fortune when the internet came on the scene!
Online magazines, downloadable films, online strippers, sex chat rooms the list goes on and on and the ‘industry’ has led the way in web innovation.
Let’s face it, they had the money to employ the best programmers!
Is He Married ? Poll Says 1 In 3 Is Lying!
OK, so you’re on the dating site, you’ve checked your posts, and have been contacted by a few men expressing interest. You check out their profiles and there’s one that sounds just right, ticks all your boxes so you e-mail him back and before you know it your discussing getting together.
But what are the chances he’s married already? Is that really him in the photo? (Hey! This works both ways – for ‘he’ read ’she’ too)…
What’s cheating and what isn’t?
I was reading in the ‘What makes you happy’ blog about what the definition of infidelity is. For example look at this list and ask which of these you would consider as cheating:
1. Paying a prostitute for (safe) sex
2. Having sex with someone from the office at a drunken office party…










