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I Cheat But Don't Know Why?
By Charlie on March 23, 2009  |  Comments 0

I Cheat But Don’t Know Why?

Here’s what Tim had to say to me recently:

“I’m cheating on my wife but don’t know what to do!”

Tim’s in an especially difficult position because his wife doesn’t know ( but Tim wants to confess to ’start afresh’ )… unfortunately his girlfriend WANTS him to tell his wife so they (girlfriend and Tim) can be a legit couple! Wow! Complicated!

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My Partner Loves A Virtual Reality Avatar?
By Charlie on March 15, 2009  |  Comments 0

My Partner Loves A Virtual Reality Avatar?

One of our neighbors spent most of the last year confined to her home, seemingly tied to her computer, spending all of her time online and engaged in the cyber reality place called Second Life.

I admit that I became a little curious as to the attraction of this massively popular ‘game’…

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How to Catch an Online Cheat
By Charlie on March 14, 2009  |  Comments 0

How to Catch an Online Cheat

So you have been observing your partner for a while and you are becoming more and more convinced that they are having an online affair or indulging in some form of online activity that you consider damaging to your relationship.

Good News: Catching an online cheat can be done pretty simply unless your partner is a techno wiz…

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Classic Computer Infidelity Behavior
By Charlie on March 14, 2009  |  Comments 0

Classic Computer Infidelity Behavior

Any drastic or sudden change in a partner’s behavior towards you should naturally be a cause of concern, but there are specific behaviors that are more likely to indicate that your partner is engaging in computer infidelity.

While a sudden lost of sexual interest can be the result of numerous possibilities, the general desire not to be near you, not to cuddle, not to engage with you on any physical sense is a definite warning sign.

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Coping with Online Infidelity
By Charlie on March 14, 2009  |  Comments 0

Coping with Online Infidelity

Coping with online infidelity is a relatively new concept. In the time before the internet an affair took up a great deal of time and energy and had to be meticulously planned out in order to be successful.

These days anyone can jump onto the internet and find someone who will at least perform sexual activities if not get more involved. I have even been propositioned in chat rooms designed for parenting advice!

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What is 'Emotional' Infidelity?
By Charlie on March 12, 2009  |  Comments 0

What is ‘Emotional’ Infidelity?

Hearing that your cheating spouse is “in love” with someone else is devastating.

I hear often, “I can handle her having sex with someone else. I think I can live with that. But, for her to give herself emotionally and “love” someone else…man, that is hard.”

BTW: Feel free to substitute the word ‘he’ for ’she’ in this article.

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Is Your Partner Having An Online Affair?
By Charlie on March 10, 2009  |  Comments 0

Is Your Partner Having An Online Affair?

There is a growing trend among apparently committed couples these days. The increase in cybersex relationships and online affairs is actually at disturbing numbers.

While there are varying definitions that determine what actually constitutes an affair or cybersex, the websites that promote this type of ‘hooking up’ are not all that discreet…

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Is Cyber Sex Addictive - are you hooked ?
By Charlie on September 27, 2008  |  Comments 0

Is Cyber Sex Addictive – are you hooked ?

The pornography industry couldn’t believe its good fortune when the internet came on the scene!

Online magazines, downloadable films, online strippers, sex chat rooms the list goes on and on and the ‘industry’ has led the way in web innovation.

Let’s face it, they had the money to employ the best programmers!

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Is He Married ? Poll Says 1 In 3 Is Lying!
By Charlie on June 17, 2007  |  Comments 3

Is He Married ? Poll Says 1 In 3 Is Lying!

OK, so you’re on the dating site, you’ve checked your posts, and have been contacted by a few men expressing interest. You check out their profiles and there’s one that sounds just right, ticks all your boxes so you e-mail him back and before you know it your discussing getting together.

But what are the chances he’s married already? Is that really him in the photo? (Hey! This works both ways – for ‘he’ read ’she’ too)…

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What's cheating and what isn't?
By Charlie on June 07, 2007  |  Comments 9

What’s cheating and what isn’t?

I was reading in the ‘What makes you happy’ blog about what the definition of infidelity is. For example look at this list and ask which of these you would consider as cheating:

1. Paying a prostitute for (safe) sex

2. Having sex with someone from the office at a drunken office party…

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What is Online Infidelity? Does it really exist?

What is Online Infidelity? Does it really exist?

What is the difference between a little harmless online flirting and actual online infidelity? The information age brought with it a great many moral questions that have been difficult for people to answer, and this one ranks up there with the top five questions.

What is Cyber Sexual Addiction? Is real life so scary?

What is Cyber Sexual Addiction? Is real life so scary?

Cyber sexual addiction, by definition, is the chronic and compulsive need to engage in cybersex activities. This can occur whether the individual is in a committed relationship or is single. Cybersex is the act of flirting and becoming sexually suggestive online with another party.

Spotting Emotional Infidelity Signs - It ain't that hard!

Spotting Emotional Infidelity Signs – It ain’t that hard!

Spotting emotional infidelity signs can be just as traumatic as spotting signs of a sexual affair. Emotional infidelity can carry a harsh sting, as the rationale that “it was just sex” flies right out the window.

Reasons for Marital Infidelity - what did you do wrong?

Reasons for Marital Infidelity – what did you do wrong?

Sure, there are many reasons for marital infidelity. Some people believe that if you are not taking care of business at home that a partner will wander off to get their needs met elsewhere – hmm, seems a bit 2 dimensional.

Monitoring Websites Visited by Your Partner. What are they hiding?

Monitoring Websites Visited by Your Partner. What are they hiding?

Perhaps the ethical question isn’t so much how do you monitor websites visited by your partner without getting caught, but should you monitor websites visited by your partner?

Is Online Flirting Cheating? Hey, I never met the guy!

Is Online Flirting Cheating? Hey, I never met the guy!

It’s a difficult question to answer. Is online flirting cheating or is it just innocent fun and harmless play? This issue regularly divides couples as there are many different viewpoints that factor into the answer.


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