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You Asked About: Spyware Catch Cheating Husband

Lisa asks…

can anyone tell me how to catch my husband?

i think my husband is cheating, i can feel it in my gut and he just been acting really really weird even his family has noticed it… does any one know a good spyware for cell phones?? or anything else

Chas answers:

Hook up a motion detector to a flood light and sirens in the bedroom. If you don’t catch him at least you’ll scare the crap out of him.

Otherwise, just google it. The old camera in the teddy bear is a good one. Or buy a new “vase”. Wire it to a PC. It’s not trivial. If you are serious, hire someone to hook it up.

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You Asked About: I Think It S Getting Hotter

Robert asks…

Guys: Do you think it’s hot when a girl has toned, muscular legs?

As in like, muscular volleyball legs. Theyre all muscle, but not fat or chubby. I have really strong, toned legs, and now my ex is saying they’re ugly because I don’t have stick-skinny thighs like the rest of the girls at my school. There proportioned with my calves pretty well. Most Guys like my legs, but I‘m getting self-concious. Do guys like them? :) I‘m not fat

Here’s a similar picture of what they look like:
http://www.google.com/m/search?site=images&gl=us&client=safari&source=mog&hl=en&aq=f&oq=&aqi=-k0d0t0&fkt=8865&fsdt=15814&htf=&his=&q=women+with+volleyball+legs#i=4

Sorry if this might be in the wrong category, i just want most guy answers

Chas answers:

They look fine. To be honest, they look pretty sexy. At least you don’t have chicken legs, aha:) by the way, find a guy who likes you for who you are and not what you look like. :) goodluck!

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You Asked About: I Think My Husband Had An Affair

Lizzie asks…

My husband had an affair. He claims that he met her at a bar. I think he is lying. I think he met her on?

the internet. He said that he was not attracted to her and she is not someone he would have asked out. Would a guy really have an affair with someone he wasn’t physically attracted to? I think he met her on line and then was emotionally attracted to her when they finally did meet.

Chas answers:

Michelle, the biggest question is what are you going to do about this?! He’s admitted he had an affair w/someone. Are you going to stay w/him, OR are you going to make a break w/him?! Attracted to her or not, he still cheated on YOU. IS there love in your marriage, why did he cheat in the first place, are you going to try to “fix” this or are you going to let it, let him go! These are the most important questions. IF he did it once, do you feel he’s going to just do it again & again? You didn’t say how long you’ve been married, but if this is what you’re going to have to be “worried” about it from time to time, what good is this marriage period. You can do far better w/someone who truly cares about you, someone who loves you, someone who is going to be true to you. I went thru a cheating marriage. I litterly lost count of the affairs, he got so he didn’t even attempt to hide them from me anymore. I finally got the courage to tell him NO. NO I was NOT going to take any more of it. When I did, I felt like a ton of bricks rolled off my shoulders. I was finally FREE of it all. Free to go forward w/my life & NOT have to worry any more. THIS is what you have to decide. IF he is NOT worth it, going to have you wondering where he is, what he’s doing, who he’s doing it with the rest of your marriage, this is NOT a marriage. You have just not met the rite person yet. YES, there IS a special someone out there just for you. Someone who w/bring you happiness & w/love you, not cheat on you. Decide what’s best for YOU. Make up your mind & go forward w/whatever you decide. I would NEVER go thru what I did again. I am better than that, deserve better than that, so do YOU. Don’t fall for broken promises. Just let him go & you go forward w/your life & you WILL meet the rite one for you…Think about it hard & make a decision & go for it full blast. He’s going to “feed” you all kinds of lies, don’t believe him. Don’t accept the unacceptable, you’re better than that…best to you…:)

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You Asked About: I Want A Love Like Johnny And June

William asks…

who sings the song i want to love like johnny and june?

i like this song i heard on the radio its a country song and it goes…i want to love like johnny and june, ring of fire…i dont remember the rest. i typed it in msn and google and yahoo and nothing comes back..thanks to all
its not ring of fire but thanks
its a woman singing it i think her i first name is holly

Chas answers:

Heidi Newfield sings it

Oh there’s something ’bout a man in black,
Makes me want to buy a cadillac,
Throw the top back,
And roll down to Jackson town,
I wanna be there on the stage with you,
You and I could be the next rage to,
Hear the crowd roar,
Make ’em one more,
I’ll kick the footlights out,

I wanna love like Johnny and June,
Rings of fire burnin’ with you,
I wanna walk the line,
Walk the line,
‘Till the end of time,
I wanna love,
Love ya that much,
Cash it all in,
Give it all up,
When you’re gone,
I wanna go too,
Like Johnny and June,

I wanna hold you baby right or wrong,
Build a world around a country song,
Pray a sweet prayer,
Follow you there,
Down in history,

I wanna love like Johnny and June,
Rings of fire burnin’ with you,
I wanna walk the line,
Walk the line,
‘Till the end of time,
I wanna love,
Love ya that much,
Cash it all in,
Give it all up,
When you’re gone,
I wanna go too,
Like Johnny and June,

Like Johnny and June,
More than life itself,
No-one else,
This here is promise,
They don’t make love like that anymore,
Is that too much to be askin’ for,

I wanna love like Johnny and June,
Rings of fire burnin’ with you,
I wanna walk the line,
Walk the line,
‘Till the end of time,
I wanna love,
Love ya that much,
Cash it all in,
Give it all up,
When you’re gone,
I wanna go too,
Like Johnny and June,

Like Johnny and June,
And when we’re gone,
There’ll be no tears to cry,
Only memories of our lives,
They’ll remember, remember,
A love like that.

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You Asked About: Will Executor

Joseph asks…

How can I force my mother’s will executor to complete the sale of her property?

My mother died almost a year ago. My sister is executor of her will. The sale of her house has been in limbo….for example, my sister told me she would get an appraisal on the house value asap the first week in January. We still do not have an appraisal.

Chas answers:

Since the estate is paying the attorney you (if no other sibling) a inventory of your mother estate has to be filed in the probate court. The estate having an executor named has to have a appraisal done to get the base price of the home value. Get a copy of the probate papers and if the inventory has not be filed hire another attorney to protect your inheritance.

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You Asked About: What Can I Purchase With My Hsa

Thomas asks…

What does “not in compliance” mean for a health insurance company?

We both lost our jobs due to the economy and are now self-employed trying to raise our family of five on low-income wages. I was a teacher, he was in construction, this is not what we planned but life happens. We took at least a 50% paycut and lost our health insurance.

We privately purchase high deductible HSA health insurance through BCBS. It seemed like the responsible thing to do. Our deductible is $5k and our max out of pocket is $11k. We will be out around $7k this year. I was told to negotiate with the hospital and doctors. However, they told me they could not negotiate because it was not “in compliance”. They said they used to be able to cut rates but now they can‘t -they have to notify the insurance company in writing if they do. I‘ve called the hospital billing people, I‘ve called BCBS, I‘ve tried to figure out what this compliance issue is and where it comes from –what document, what language? The hospital billing people didn’t know and BCBS gave me the run-around.

What I can gather is that BCBS will not let the hospital give us a discount because then THEY would also want the same discount. This seems crazy to me! Why would they care if we are paying our premiums The hospital takes the hit, not them. Maybe I‘m wrong.

Does anyone know what they mean or where this comes from. Nobody can answer my question. We just don’t have the money. We might be able to pay on it month by month but anything can happen at anytime. I can‘t be assured that I‘ll still have my job or my husband won’t break his arm and not be able to work…I just can‘t.

Frustrated! -But if anyone could help me with what this “compliance” thing is, I‘d greatly appreciate it.

Chas answers:

Anything being “Out of Compliance” or “Not in Compliance”, means it is not following the rules, laws, requirements, stipulations, program, agreement, etc. You need to discuss this with them, and ask them to answer you in detail, what exactly is not in compliance. It could be one thing or several things that are not in compliance. I’ve also seen that fancy wording on things that were of minimum nature (i.e. Someone omitted their middle initial on a document and was therefore, out of compliance). If you cannot find the exact information in their Compliance area (a document, a manual, a leaflet, a brochure), then you need to call them, ask for a manager or supervisor, and ask where exactly the rule is, that you are not in compliance with. They know their paperwork and manuals and where everything is, because it’s their company. But you can’t possibly know, because you don’t work there. If you make it clear that you’ve done your homework and are still “lost” over this, then hopefully someone there will have the time to help you with this. Good luck.

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