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You Asked About: Catch Your Spouse Online

Susan asks…

Would you stay with your spouse if they were caught online chatting with a teenager about your ‘unfortunate’ a?

Would you stay with your spouse if they were caught online chatting with a teenager about your ‘unfortunate’ accident in the bathtub, and then 2 years later caught putting ‘unknown’ substances in your food and drink?
You’re right it’s a dumb question. I guess I am just trying to get someone else to verify what I already know I should be doing. Or maybe even trying to excuse the fact that it was a ‘herbal’ substance. I guess I should be glad I kept all the ‘chat transcripts’ as well, although I don’t know what good they are to me. It’s hard to leave when your spouse is the sole supporter :(

Chas answers:

I am thinking that perhaps the spouse in question is someone you really don’t love, nor do they love you.

Best to start planning an exit. Run don’t walk.

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You Asked About: Found Out My Wife Is Having An Affair

Steven asks…

My friend is having an affair with a transsexuali, how do you think his family will react if they found out?

My friend has been having a secret affair with a pre-op transsexual girl for the past year. He’s been married for 26 years, has a daughter who is 23, the transsexual woman is 24. He worries about his family finding out about his affair. Do you think they’ll consider him, “Just a normal straight guy” after the family finds out? His wife works for a Catholic school, and all his friends know him a tough, masculine guy.

Chas answers:

4 me it would depend on weather the girl still had her pe pe or not. A pe pe is a pe pe even if u do look like a female on the outside He should think about his family. The worst thing a woman could find out about her husband is he’s been cheating on her with a man who’s young enough 2 b his son!! I couldn’t imagine the pain she’s going 2 encounter if this gets out!!

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You Asked About: Brothels Online

Laura asks…

are there any free online games where you get to be in the mafia and sell drugs or run brothels?

are there any online games that are free where you get to be in the mafia and you play with people around the world and you sell drugs run brothels and casinos and things like that as the game i used to play has shut down so i need a new one.

Chas answers:

I don’t think so . . . But why would you want to play that? It sounds kinda duuuumb >.<' A good shooting game is Resistance: Fall of man or Resistance 2 is you have a ps3 (It's an online game 2)

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You Asked About: 1h Nmr Table

Steven asks…

draw the skeletal structure of isomer #2?

Question Details:
There are two different constitutional isomers that have the same multiplicity of signals for their protons, but at different chemical shifts, as shown in the table below. Use the chemical shift information given in Table A and Table B to help you determine the structure of the indicated isomer whose structure would be consistent with the information given below.
Hint: the table gives approximate chemical shifts. It is possible for the chemical shift of a proton bonded to an atom or functional group shown in Table A to be outside of the range given if that proton could fall into 2 different categories on the table.)
molecular formula: C4H7ClO2.
1H NMR:
Isomer #1unknown_prefix
Isomer #2unknown_prefix

Singlet @ 4.34 ppm

Quartet @ 4.12 ppm

Triplet @ 1.30 ppm
Singlet @ 6.17 ppm

Quartet @ 2.29 ppm

Triplet @1.14 ppm

Diagnostic IR peak for both isomers is consistent with the functional group whose peak lies between 1730 – 1750 cm-1
SODAR = 1
(SODAR stands for sum of double bonds and rings. A SODAR of 1 means there is either 1 bond or 1 ring. A SODAR of 2 means there are: 2 bonds or 2 rings or 1 bond and 1 ring.)

Chas answers:

A: CH3CH2O2CCH2Cl

b: CH3CH2CO2CH2Cl

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You Asked About: Can You Ever Trust A Cheating Husband Again

Mary asks…

If my cheating husband promise to work things out, can I trust him again?

My husband is currently deployed for 15 months. A month and a half before he deployed, he started acting really distant and constantly spoke of this girl… let’s just call her “Mary.” I got suspicious, so I checked his email and found three-days worth of messages, and apparently phone calls, between the two of them. (Turns out, they dated a few years back) The messages started out innocent, but by the end of it, my husband confessed to her that he’s happy with me, but “sometimes I wish I could be with you.” Then he said, “who knows… one day it may work out after all.” This led to a HUGE distruption in our marriage. Since he’s been deployed, I haven’t been able to speak to anyone about this… including him. I know he’s very stressed where he is, so I try to make him feel like everything is “good” back home. When we talked about it, he told me he didn’t know what he was thinking and he would never, ever do that to me again. Can I trust that? I need advice because I’m still hurting.
Thank you so much for all of your answers and support. My husband and I have been married for about a year and a half– we got married very young too. Before we even got married, I found he had been talking to a different girl… but for a much longer period of time. So trust has always been an issue for me. He only confessed that to me several days ago, in fact. It’s two strikes already, and I’m afraid that he is not being sincere with me.

Chas answers:

Yeah it sounds like you can trust him. Its not like he was actually screwing this girl anyways, and he seems really sorry. You should try to get past this and be supportive of his deployment, cause if you keep dwelling on this transgression of his you are just going to end up ruining your marriage completley. This is still very fixable, if you are willing to try.

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You Asked About: How Can I Find Out If My Husband Is Having An Affair

Donna asks…

Married women..,how would you feel if you were to find out that your husband has a mistress?

.I see some questions about girls who are involved with married man. I am not married myself but I can‘t imagine how I would feel if my husband was having an affair with another women.
Please share your experience

Chas answers:

I know how i felt when i found out my husband of 10 years was having an affair, it totally devastated me, the life i thought i had i didn’t, the man i thought loved me really didn’t and it totally ruined my world for awhile. I was last to know and he hid it well, it wasn’t obvious, except in the way he began to treat me which i attributed to a rough patch. I found i could not afford the home so it had to be sold, we had pets, and i knew i had to move away and unfortunately couldn’t take them too, and they had to be re homed. My whole life changed and there was nothing i could do he wanted her and not me so there was no choice but to move on.now four years later i have a new life, a new husband, and life does go on and it is possible to be happy again if your willing to leave the past and face reality.

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