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What would your actions be if you found out your spouse was having a “virtual” affair?

How would you react if you discovered that your partner was having – and had been for some time – an affair via the internet.

The two parties had never met – but it appeared to be a sincere and reciprocal relationship.
Would you be able to dismiss it as “not real”.
Would it still be a case of deception and destroy all trust?
Have you ever considered such a relationship yourself?

If a married girl courts your husband and He tells you all about it what would you say and feel?

My husband recently confessed that He had this officemate who started to court him months ago (who is by the way married with 2 children). And because this girl is beautiful and smart he is flattered with the love and attention she offered and agreed to have an affair with her. But He cannot continue lying to me so he confessed. But he said the problem is this so many times he tried to break with her but she still won’t give up. If you‘re in my shoes how would you feel and what will you say to your husband? And how can you both solve this kind of complication?

Once a cheater, always a cheater?

There’s this guy I knew in high school, and he just caught up with me on facebook. After a short while, he messaged me and asked me if I was single. We’ve been out of school since 2000. Well, we’ve been talking and trying to set up a date, and he asked me what my record was of being faithful. I told him I have never cheated (and that is the truth), and asked him and he said he has cheated twice. I don’t know what the first time involved, but the second time was 3 years later. The 2nd time wasn’t an ongoing thing, it was a one time kiss with an ex that he has a child with. He said he didn’t like the way it made him feel (knowing he had cheated) and he won’t ever do it again, but I always thought once a cheater, always a cheater was a good way to look at it. I really want to date him but I am scared he will do it again if he gets bored with me. He said I have nothing to worry about, but I am still worried for some reason. Do they continue to cheat more often than not?

How To Block Websites Over Networks?

ok this i tried to shove aside for some time, but i know my dad is watching porn at night on his computer down stairs and i find it discusting and humiliating i have a parent like this but after hacking his account once before and deleting his videos my brother has catched him alot watching it via net now, i am growing angry as doing my work this evening i try opening some sites and it hit a all down slow, well i checked only 3 things was using the network (we commonly have up to 5 somtimes 6 and have no problems with speed) so one being mine it left 2 others, i checked with my bro he was only playing games over the net no problem, my dad though i walked in with him to instantly close his browser, i know he was on porn as i got a glimsp of a persons body, what ever he was up to though was sending unusual feeding spikes slowing all our net, and now i have had it so i have 2 questions, i offer best answer + using my sisters account to vote best and possitive answer to the following questions:

1) is there any simple key log tool in which i can use to track his history through my computer in my room without been seen (i can install programs, trackers on his comp if need be) basically any tool which will give me his every website visited, every video downloaded everything done on his computer to every extent… i will need a link to the program please
in summary it need to act stealth and send logs via email or just over the network at the end of the day or whatever with everything he has been up to (this is going to be my hard everdence)

2) as my alternative before sorting the moron out i was curious if i can play mother over the network, basically in otherwords i can block his sites? say i use method above to gain his common porn site then i can use somthing simular to parental control from my computer (via a program or not, doesnt matter) so i can basially lock him down site by site?

either or both answers will grant u a positive feedbk provided its somthing real and not some dumb remark
the best most detailed one with links for programs or tools or methods to try will go to best answer
this is embarrasing for me to post but im sick of it and want it to stop
thankyou
@ Kris:
me and my brother pay net, he pays nothing, and unfortunatly my mother cant prove nothing without evidence

What are good first person shooters for playing online?

I tried playing Medal of Honor and Modern Warfare 2, but they are full of cheaters to the point that im not having fun at all. Not to mention there is hardly playing those anymore, I could only find 4 populated servers for MOH and 3 of them had people scoring 40+ kills to ~2 deaths.

Are there any games out there that don’t have so many cheaters on them but also have some Single Player playability?

Is My wife is holding me in a bad marriage?

My wife is keeping me in a Limbo state of marriage – there is little real love in my opinion- but she thinks everything is fine and just wants to plod on – if I explain problems she just says well you know where the door is, or we never resolve any problems, its just conflict and more conflict.

We argue nearly every day of the week, slam the phone on each other – I really don’t like talking to her or being around her too much. She always in bad moods, she is cranky and bossy and demanding.

Despite all that she will say “I love you” or sign messages “love” – I just feel there is a gap between the words and reality – its like she is in denial about just how terrible the relationship, and she does do things for me and help me – but to be honest I don’t need a cleaner or cook, I can do it myself.

But its not real – I Want Support, Commitment, open and honest discussion … I feel she is playing with me and wasting my time – and happy to waste her own time, live in denial and an empty relationship. She is happy in a relationship of convenience – and wants to keep me in it that way.

I feel like I am going mad, and I tempted to have an affair just to feel some warmth – I just can’t explain to anyone how empty and soul destroying it is.

She is like a stepford wife or something – there is nothing real from her…. Like cold, corporate work colleague type.

I think the only way to actually shake or move her – is to just give her a letter from a lawyer to iniate the divorce – there is not getting through to her – she just shuts me out and stonewalls.