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You Asked About: My Wife Is Having An Affair What Should I Do

John asks…
Co-workers having an affair, should I tell them I know?
I suspect that two of my co-workers are having an affair. They are always finding excuses to see each other, they have started having lunch together, they flirt constantly and text each other. He is married, she is not but his daughter works under her. We are a small business with 16 employees. Should I sit down with one of them and tell them I know? If it goes bad it will be very bad for business, I know his wife and it is making work uncomfortable. What do I do?
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Chas answers:
If you are in a supervisory position, yes. If not, NOOOOOO. You can VERY discretly let your supervisor know, but if you are just a coworker, it is best you stay as far away from that as you possibly can.
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You Asked About: Think My Wife Is Having An Affair

Lisa asks…
Re I think my wife is having an affair?
Both of us are fixed, and its not really just the sex. we have been together for three years. She allways stood behind anything I said and I to for her now she yells at me and that jusy startyed I love her very much and could never imagine my self having an affair on her And the name maria is the name she chose on here for me. ThANKS FOR YOUR RESPONSES ALOT OF THEM REALLY HIT HOME
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Chas answers:
WHAT? Is this one long sentence? Can you have this spellchecked, grammar checked, and reposted?
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You Asked About: How To Cheat On Your Husband Book

George asks…
So, I just found out that my husband has invited…?
his buddy over and the woman he’s cheating on HIS wife with to go out WITH US, tonight.
Here are some facts:
My husband KNOWS I don’t like her and don’t want anything to do with her….
I don’t like her or want anything to do with her, because SHE implied “SHE GOT TO KNOW MY HUSBAND REALLY WELL” on a weekend that I stayed home from ATV-ing because I was under the weather..
My husband SWEARS she’s lying, but his track record of being able to trust his word (he’s never cheated on me). Now, I am not in a good mood, and KNOW myself well enough to know that if she actually shows here tonight or if I’m left alone with her, there is GREAT chance I’m going to ask her something like “SO, TELL ME HOW MY HUSBAND…. IN YOUR BOOK!”
Ok, what do I do? If you think I should speak up, give me some zingers!
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Chas answers:
Well to be honest take the higher road be pleasant engage in conversation smile laugh. Then when all are having a good time
bamb what position was your favorite did he get you off.
Then watch the show.ever thing you wanted to know plus revenge , humiliation & your next step if she lied or husband. If she did problem solved if not sucks to be him.
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You Asked About: My Wife Had An Affair With My Brother

Chris asks…
I dreamt my brother had an affair with my other brother’s wife!?
I have twin brothers and I dreamt that one was having sex with the others wife. I knew and didn’t tell because I didn’t want to hurt my brother and didn’t want the other brother to kill the other one. I was so angry.
What could that mean?
Yes, she did know the difference between the two!
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Chas answers:
This has nothing to do with your brothers or adultery. It has everything to do with the anger you felt. Theres an issue in your life over which you do not have control. It makes you angry but you’re afraid to express that anger.
I suggest you look deep in yourself to see what is this anger connected to and start dealing with it.
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You Asked About: Infidelity Reasons

William asks…
Lies? What are reasons your significant other would admit to an infidelity then recant their story?
My spouse admitted to having had an extramarital affair/one night stand. Of course, there was fall out. Time passes along with some hurt feelings;not just mine, and then he does an about face on his original confession has happened. He states that he was was confused and just wanted to be heard regarding what he wants from our relationship??????
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Chas answers:
Infidelity doesn’t necessarily mean the end of a marriage. Sometimes a relationship can be saved. If the cheater is genuinely sorry, has severed all ties with the Other Woman, and is willing to work hard to rebuild the broken trust, then the cheater might be worthy of a second chance, Unfortunately your husband tries to blame you for forcing his confession. It is bad sign for you and you have to think if it is worth to repair this relation. Blaming spouse is one of signs of cheating.
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You Asked About: Find Cheaters Internet

William asks…
i am a very loyal person, but i find that the internet is great at destroying relationships?
what can i do to avoid the net, especially since my BF is halfway across the world?
i am NOT a cheater, but we got into a heated, nasty, insulting argument, i was very insulted and he broke it off in anger for a couple of weeks. not knowing he would come back (he is a moody guy) (it was about serious issues like our family and religion ’cause we’re from different backgrounds) and i thought he meant it. i still wanted him and now we are back together but during that time i couldn’t help but go chat online with people. nothing happened but i added a couple of guys on facebook and just chatted for couple days. i deleted them now now i feel guilty. during my relationship i didn’t do those things, but in the heat of the moment when he left i did. am i guilty or not?
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Chas answers:
Yup. You are.
Youve now opened yourself to the possibility of drinking other manjuice and where you wouldnt have considered it before, youre now licking your lips in anticipation of that first sip. No worries, it happens when people split up. Its not your fault, maybe next time pick a guy thats not so closed-minded and prejudicial so that you dont have to worry about this becoming an issue again.
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