I Cheat But Don’t Know Why?

Here’s what Tim had to say to me recently:

“I’m cheating on my wife but don’t know what to do!”

Tim’s in an especially difficult position because his wife doesn’t know ( but Tim wants to confess to ‘start afresh’ )… unfortunately his girlfriend WANTS him to tell his wife so they (girlfriend and Tim) can be a legit couple! Wow! Complicated!

Thing is that if Tim wanted to leave his wife for his girlfriend then, while difficult, it’s do-able.

But Tim wants to ditch the girlfriend and stay with his wife. He can’t see how that can ever happen. He’s pretty sure as soon as he ditches the girlfriend she’ll go all ‘bunny boiler‘ on him and contact the wife out of spite.

The wife, as yet, knows nothing and thinks she’s in a normal faithful marriage.

Tim is worried that the girlfriend is going to ‘spill the beans’ to his wife to encourage Tim to move in with her full-time. He knows he’s got to come clean and fast!

Looks like Tim is f***ed either way – what do YOU think? Your advice can be for Tim, the wife, the girlfriend or all three…