July 15, 2011 | | Comments 0

You Asked About: Confront Cheater Work

Paul asks…

My fiancee cheated on me and everyone i work with knows. how do i face her and my co-workers?

I’m a United States Marine and I’ve been engaged to my fiancee for over two and a half years. The Marine Corps is tough, but she has supported me time and time again. Recently she cheated on me with a friend and now the Marines I work with know. How do I confront her without making things worse and how do I manage going to work with me being labeled as a fool and her being labeled as a cheater?

Chas answers:

You aren’t a fool, but she is a cheater. You can’t control what people think. You will find out quickly who your “real” friends are. What you and your fiancee decide to do to deal with the situation is up to you. Keep others out of it. People make judgments every day about others and they are not always fair or accurate. You didn’t do anything wrong. Your situation stinks. Deal with her first and don’t worry about what people think. You never know how you will react to a given situation until you are in it.

I hope this helps a little, sorry for your situation.

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