You Asked About: Husband Having Affair At Work
Ruth asks…
caught my husband having a affair. what do i do now?
exactly one week ago i came home from work to find my husband having a affair with our neighbor.. I have done so much for my husband and our family , he does not work , i have been providning for our family for almost 4 years now.. I have always felt so in love with him .. did anything he asked or gave him anything he wanted..the day it happend.. i was a total mess .. i was in shock.. crying to the floor as if there was a death .. i could not even believe what i was seeing.. I had made him leave (by polie escort) .. i was devastated.. and still am .. seeing him with another lady turned my world upsede down .. he knew the pain he had caused me.. but at that time of being caught he was not sorry .,.. but instead rude and said well it was over anyways !.. he eventually left and later sent me a message saying sorry and he never meant to hurt me and wanted a second chance and would do anything.. the neighbor was a bit upset because im thinking she thought she would get him now that it was in the open.. she told me all ther secrets.. she said he was telling her that he loved her and was already referring to her as BABE ! i was told that the affair was going on for months .. while i was at work .. he would go next door…well the last 2 days we have been talking .. but i have major trust issues now.. i moved out of the house and he went to his familys house.. he said he wanted to fix things but acts like it is my fault . he is acting irratted that i ask him where he is or who he is with .. he is telling me that he will not put up with all the questions…. its obvious that i love him … but do i let him go ? and if so .. how do i cope ? im still in shock from what he did to our family .. and then to deal with never having him in my life again … but he is not making me feel like he is sorry or regrets it…some one please help me … im so lost and …. scared to loose him .. or scared to admit that is is and was already over????
Chas answers:
It sounds like you no what to do. He did something wrong. He needs to feel sorry what is so hard about telling you where he is. You sound like you would make an appreciative man very happy. He took you for granted. You deserve better if he was sorry he would have been when he was getting caught. Not an ass. You deserve better. He’s a piece of s.h.I.t do not be with him. You don’t want your kids to grow up thinking its ok to be unemployed and a bad life partner. Be strong. Again you do not deserve that. And in your own home. If he had any respect for you or cared for you the slightest bit he would have at the very least kept it out of the house you share. And wouldn’t say he loves her even if he doesn’t. If he really cared GED be kissing your ass telling you where he is what he’s doing when he’s don’t and what color his boxers are. Before he cheated that would be crazy and obsessive but for a while he needs to earn your trust and he’s not. Leave him good luck be strong its not once a Cheater always a cheater but its not sorry now wont be later. Please being with him would be a mistake. Where you really happy? That has alot to do with your decision as well. Good luck in whatever you decide and remember you have your children
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