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August 10, 2011 | | Comments 0

You Asked About: I Suspect My Husband Is Having An Affair

Maria asks…

I suspect my husband is having an affair?

I think my husband of 13 years is having an affair. We had a baby last year. We haven’t had sex in over 6 months and it was one sided (for him) He won’t touch me anymore. He used to call me 3-4 times a day while he was at work, he doesn’t anymore. He has called me everyday for the last 2.5 years and it all of a sudden stops. I have check his phone and I found a couple of womans phone numbers in his phone.

I really want to catch him cheating any advice as to how i do that?
I think my husband of 13 years is having an affair. We had a baby last year. We haven’t had sex in over 6 months and it was one sided (for him) He won’t touch me anymore. He used to call me 3-4 times a day while he was at work, he doesn’t anymore. He has called me everyday for the last 2.5 years and it all of a sudden stops. I have check his phone and I found a couple of womans phone numbers in his phone.

I really want to catch him cheating any advice as to how i do that.
EDIT-
What i meant to say was, i want to catch him cheating if he IS!

Chas answers:

I do not agree with spying. Marriage builds on love, trust and respect. From what you have said, I think those phone numbers don’t mean anything, it can be just normal calls. My question is, do you still want to be married to him? If you do, then stop spying him(doesn’t mean pretend nothing is wrong). Men are lazy creatures, some of them get into a kind of routine then just stay there. He might got used of you not wanting sex during the pregnant period. Trust me, this does happen to some people. In this case, you can start with creating some intimate moment after baby is asleep and dress up for him. If he still doesn’t react, then you may need to have a nice talk with him. When he is in the mood to listen, tell him how you are feeling.
In another hand, if you don’t want to stay married with him, and just “really want to catch him cheating”, then what’s the whole point? Catch him cheating and get hurt? Or find out he’s not cheating and feel regret? Revenge is not healthy and I don’t think you need this extra weight to carry.

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