September 21, 2011 | | Comments 0

You Asked About: Signs Of An Affair Relationship

Robert asks…

what are the first signs of an affair in a marriage relationship?

Chas answers:

Here are some warning signs that your spouse could be cheating on you.

* Your spouse seems bored. Bored with you, with job, with kids, with hobbies, with life in general.

* Your spouse seems to want danger or thrills in his/her life.

* There is considerably less intimacy in your relationship. Your sex life is practically non-existent.

* Your spouse has a low self-esteem.

* You notice your spouse has a sense of confusion about self.

* You spouse has become lazy, especially around the house.

* You can’t get your spouse to communicate with you.

* Your spouse gets very defensive if you mention infidelity or affairs.

* Your spouse is suddenly more attentive than usual.

* Your mate is working longer hours at work.

* Your spouse is dressing nicer, looking nicer.

* You notice charges on credit card statement that don’t make sense.

* Your spouse is indifferent to family events like birthdays and holidays.

* You find your partner has been lying to you about a variety of things.

* Money becomes more of an issue between the two of you.

* He/she doesn’t want to go anywhere or do anything with you anymore.

* You can’t even get your mate to fight with you.

* You feel as if you are being avoided.

* Your partner abandons religious faith.

* Your spouse seems more secretive.

Everyone has problems in marriage but if these problems continue on for a while then you can sum it up to cheating.

****Also go with that gut feeling God gave us when things do go right!****

Gut feeling ftw!

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